Everyone has their own agenda; whether consciously aware or not – it is the truth. And what a great truth it is! What’s so great about it? Well, you know that feeling you get when walking down the street and suddenly you find yourself concerned about what other people are thinking about you? Or you notice a group of people looking at you and can’t help but wonder if they’re actually talking about you?
Let me tell you something, 9 times out of 10, they are barely even noticing you. Sounds kind of messed up in a sense, doesn’t it? Yes, you’re noticed as a person, but what you may worry about, someone else is worrying about themselves in THEIR own life. Your biggest, current “challenge” is someone else’s biggest, current challenge.
Am I saying they are the same? No, not at all. What I’m stating is that what feels like “the end of the World” or “the most amazing thing ever” generates the same feelings in someone else, only in different areas of their own life.
So, more often than not, if you ever feel concerned that people may be judging you…they’re more than likely wondering the same thing. So be yourself and love it. Other people WILL notice; though, it’s up to you what you allow them to see. Be the best you that you already are without worrying about what other people think so much.
You are always right where you need to be, doing what you are meant to be doing when you do what you do for yourself. Self-esteem is something most, if not all, of us have struggled with at some point in our lives. Accepting who you are and caring less about what others think about it, is an easy first step to improving and boosting your self-confidence.
Sign your own agenda and realize just how much more people are concerned about theirs than they are yours.
Love yourself. Because, you’re an amazing human being.